Sunday, October 23, 2011
Advice for the person I used to be
A few weeks ago a friend wrote a post to her 16 year old self. Her post caused me to do a lot of thinking about myself and the person I've become. This picture of me is when I was 22 years old. At the time I just started attending college again (after a break of 4 years). I was working part-time for UVU and attending part-time classes. I wasn't sure at the time where my life was headed. All I knew was that I wanted to finish my undergraduate degree. I also knew that I wanted to find a great guy to marry. Needless to say, those dreams became a reality for me.
As I look at this picture I can't help but think about how I'm not really the same person I was back then. I've changed in so many ways. For instance, I'm no longer working for a paycheck. Instead I work for the betterment of two little boys. I'm their Mom and my daily challenge is to keep them fed, clothed, and happy. Some days I'm able to fulfill that challenge and other days I don't.
I also think about how I'm not nearly as self centered as I was back then. Goodness knows, most days it's all I can do to get myself showered and dressed. Forget getting my hair done or makeup on (that's a luxury I can only manage to get done on Sunday's for church). The boys keep me too busy to be very self centered.
I also think about how I was always so worried that I'd never find anyone who would love me for the person that I was. Thank goodness, that person somehow stumbled into my life. I honestly don't know how Brandon and I managed to become interested in each other. We were both unlikely candidates for each other and when it comes right down to it, we don't even have that much in common. But, he has been perfect for me. He absolutely refuses to allow me to have emotional meltdowns (last time I had one was when Luke was born 9 months ago) and he puts up with my whims of trying to be crafty.
If I could go back in time and give myself some advice I would first of all tell myself to chill out and enjoy life a little more. Honestly, I was a pretty serious person. I would also have told myself that motherhood was going to be a whole lot harder than I imagined it to be.
Well, there you have it. I've set out to do what I've wanted to do for over a month now.That, dear readers, is what happens when you become a mother. Everything gets pushed to the back burner if it's not a critical thing that has to be done immediately. For that, I think, is the sign of a mother who cares. One who has good intentions, but ends up spending all her time feeding, clothing, and keeping her children happy.
TTFN.
Friday, October 7, 2011
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
Hiking the Y
A few weeks ago the Activity Day girls in our ward went on an activity to "Hike the Y". Since I am the Primary counselor that oversees the activity day activities (wow, that's confusing) I followed along and made Brandon come with me (thank you to my sister who watched the boys).
I had dreams of easily hiking up the trail and reveling in the beauty of the valley below. However, my dreams were shattered and I'm literally just glad I made it. It took me almost 1.5 hours to drag my "out of shape" self up this mountain. It was an event that I don't think I'll ever chose to repeat again. However, the girls had a blast and most of them thought it was great. Ah, to be young again....
I had dreams of easily hiking up the trail and reveling in the beauty of the valley below. However, my dreams were shattered and I'm literally just glad I made it. It took me almost 1.5 hours to drag my "out of shape" self up this mountain. It was an event that I don't think I'll ever chose to repeat again. However, the girls had a blast and most of them thought it was great. Ah, to be young again....
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Sisters
While looking through some old documents the other day I stumbled across this little gem. This is a picture of me and my older sister Amy. In this picture she is 2 years old and I'm just 1. Yep, we really are that close in age. Amy was born in November of '78, and I was born in February of '80. Good times for us - yes. Rough times for our mommy - double yes. I honestly don't know how she survived us, especially because our younger sister came along in April of '82. As a mother I now understand kinda what she must have went though. I don't know how she survived :-)
Monday, September 12, 2011
Fun Times
This cute little guy is being so silly today. He insisted that I take a couple of pictures of him. I think this one turned out pretty cute. At the moment I'm wishing his hair would grow out quicker then it is. I think I like it better long.
I'm also attempting to grow out my hair. Most days it drives me crazy, but I'm determined to get it long again. This is a picture of Luke and I at the nearby park. We went there as a family recently and had a blast.
This is also at the same park. Luke loved the swings so much! My blond little bald baby was so happy. Gotta love that.
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
My baby boy
Our amazing brother-in-law Shawn took these darling pictures of Luke for his 6 month birthday. I am in love with these pictures + this cute baby boy.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Singing Peter
Peter has been in such a silly 'stage' recently. He loves to go around the house singing these songs at the top of his lungs. It's pretty funny.
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Growing Stronger Every Day
Luke is getting stronger and stronger every day. I am still in shock that he's old enough to do this - didn't I just have this kid yesterday?
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Visiting Papa
Two weeks ago Brandon, and his entire office, moved to a new building on the campus of UVU. He was very involved with the design process of his office. He took me to see the building before the walls were even up. It looked amazing then, but it looks even more amazing now. Peter, Luke, and I took a picnic lunch up to the new office and enjoyed Papa's company for a couple of hours. While we were there we also took a walk down to the campus ice-cream shop to get a milkshake and smoothie from an amazing new machine that Brandon purchased. We had a blast and I hope we can go visit Papa again soon.
Brandon is so lucky! He has a corner office with windows on three sides. He rarely even turns on his light. No wonder he has been staying at work a little longer these days. With an office like this I would be surprised if he ever wanted to come home :-)
Peter enjoyed seeing this airplane. It's one of the hidden gems at UVU. Love it!
Brandon is so lucky! He has a corner office with windows on three sides. He rarely even turns on his light. No wonder he has been staying at work a little longer these days. With an office like this I would be surprised if he ever wanted to come home :-)
Peter enjoyed seeing this airplane. It's one of the hidden gems at UVU. Love it!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Home
Magically both boys are down for a nap together, so I'll get these pictures up of our new house as well as some others I think are great. This picture is of the front room which you come into directly after coming thru the front door. We've recently started having family prayers/scriptures in here every night. I love this room because it's big enough for our couches. Yea!
This is our family room. This is where we spend most of our time. In fact, if you could see in front of the couch you would see a lot of toys and ripped up magazines. Luke, for some reason, loves to rip up magazines. It keeps him entertained, so I let him do it a lot. We are very, very thankful that Brandon's parents were willing to give up their old couch and chair to us (they are in the process of getting a new set). It makes this room so cozy and nice. We still need to figure out what is going on with the fireplace (the pilot won't light), but we'll get around to that one of these days.
This is the dining room/kitchen area. It would have been nice to have a little bit bigger space for the kitchen table, but the huge kitchen make up for a small dining area.
MY KITCHEN! I'm in love with this place. I love the fact that I can be unloading the dishwasher and Brandon can be reaching into the fridge at the same time. That, my friends, is total luxury to me. I also love that the kitchen window looks directly out to the backyard, so I can keep an eye on the boys once they are old enough to go outside without me.
The office. This is Brandon's domain and he's set it up the way he loves it. I'm just grateful that we were able to fit everything in this room that we wanted in it. It's also super awesome that this room has a walk-in closet that is still pretty empty. I guess that means we have room for more random stuff.
This is Luke's room. I love that the rocking chair fits in here with plenty of room to spare. It's also nice to have him in a room of his own. Both Luke and Peter like the fact that they don't have to share.
Our bedroom. Holy cow - I could live in this place 24/7. I love all the windows and I try to uncover them every single day. It makes me happy to see the sunshine. We also have a great view of the mountains out the window on the left. I'm thankful for our new bed frame. We got it the week before we moved in. It's especially nice that Peter can climb up onto it by himself.
This is half of our bathroom. Love the fact that I have my own sink. My side of the sink is always overflowing with contact and hair stuff and Brandon's is always dirty with whisker hair. (Did you know he grew a beard?)
The bathtub is my pride and joy. Unfortunately, I've only found enough uninterrupted time to bathe in it twice, but it is heavenly. A word of warning though - go easy on the bubble bath when using the jets in this tub. It can get really crazy.
This is totally out of order, but this is the other side of our room. Since we have a closet in the bathroom for our clothes this closet is used as a 'storage room'. Brandon's Japanese flag is proudly hanging there. I would really like to display it a couple of times during the year. If only I could find the time to sit down and research which days that would be most appropriate.
This is Peter's room. He inherited our chest of drawers. It's weird because his room feels so empty right now. I'm sure that will change as he gets older. Brandon told me last night that Peter is probably big enough for us to put a flat sheet and a normal size blanket on his bed. I think I might even give Peter a pillow on which to sleep. I'm thankful for the Loy family who gave us this bed for Peter. As it was, his box springs and mattress cost us $300. At that price they better last him the rest of his life.
This is part of the moving-out crew loading up our moving truck. Honestly, we had so many amazing friends and family to help us. I've never seen anything like it. It was like a giant wave coming in and swooping everything up and taking it out into the ocean. We had our three-bedroom apartment all loaded up in just over an hour.
Okay - so we have way too much stuff. We filled a 26 foot moving truck, plus Brandon's Dad's truck and trailer, plus four cars. I don't know how we accumulated that much stuff in just over five years of marriage.
More of the awesome crew helping to load up. My Dad is the one with the dolley. He was such a hard worker that he was all ready to haul out the fridge. Thank goodness someone stopped him before he did because the fridge stayed with the apartment. Brother Wimberly (with the sweaty shirt) was assigned to be our Home Teacher the week before we moved. He was so wonderful to come and help us, even though he really didn't have to.
The empty apartment with the moving-out crew. We fed everyone doughnuts and water, so this is some of the crew taking a little break.
Moving-in crew! I can't say enough awesome things about my family. In this picture is my cousin, BIL, Uncle, and cousin's wife. We seriously were overwhelmed with everyone that came to help.
When the moving truck arrived at the house the key to the new house hadn't arrived. So everyone unloaded the moving truck while they were waiting. I bet my neighbors were laughing in their houses because our entire front yard was full of stuff.
More of the moving crew. That's a cousin, cousin's wife, and another cousin. Seriously, my cousins are the best.
Unloading the moving truck. That thing was stuffed to its gills.
More of the moving crew plus the awesome view from our front yard. That is the same view (only a little bit better) that we have from our bedroom window.
The moving crew set up a system where they would pass the boxes from one to person to the other until the box was in the right room. What's cool is that the train started in the front yard, to the front door, thru the front room, and up the stairs. It was a remarkable sight to see.
Random picture of Luke. While we were moving out of the apartment he was getting watched by my Visiting Teacher - Claudia. She was so sweet and she gave Luke this little purple monkey as a moving away gift. He loves that thing.
Brandon's cousin and his wife Vashti. They left their three-month old baby with Vashti's parents so they could come and help. Totally love these two.
Cousin, cousin, cousin's wife, and a friend of a cousin. Seriously, I was amazed that one of my cousin's friend would want to come help. Thank you Sam for bringing him. He really was such a big help.
My sister Amy and her hubby Morgan. They were the first to arrive and the last to leave. What would I do without Amy. She seriously is a life saver for me.
Aunt Laurie, Brandon's Mom, and Luke. Luke loved all the attention he was getting from everyone (except his own mother).
Another view of Luke's room. This time I am standing behind the rocking chair.
The laundry room. One of these days we're going to get cupboards to put above the washer/dryer. But until that time, I have a spare bookcase that holds all my cleaning supplies. A child lock on the door keeps the boys out of this room.
Finally, here is a recent picture of Peter. He loves these glasses so much. They are the kind that you use to watch 3D movies at the theater. He calls them his sunglasses and he is inseparable from them. What a kid.
Having a house to come home to is even more wonderful than I imagined it to be. I wish everyone could be as happy in their first home as I am in mine. I'm thankful that Brandon and I took so long to find the perfect house. It makes me happy to know that we'll probably be here for the rest of our lives. I've even daydreamed about what this house will be like when the kids are teenagers. We have met many wonderful people in our new neighborhood. There are even several kids on our street that are the same age as Luke and Peter. How awesome is that. I'm thankful that Heavenly Father directed us to look at homes in Springville because I never would have looked there of my own accord.
This is our family room. This is where we spend most of our time. In fact, if you could see in front of the couch you would see a lot of toys and ripped up magazines. Luke, for some reason, loves to rip up magazines. It keeps him entertained, so I let him do it a lot. We are very, very thankful that Brandon's parents were willing to give up their old couch and chair to us (they are in the process of getting a new set). It makes this room so cozy and nice. We still need to figure out what is going on with the fireplace (the pilot won't light), but we'll get around to that one of these days.
This is the dining room/kitchen area. It would have been nice to have a little bit bigger space for the kitchen table, but the huge kitchen make up for a small dining area.
MY KITCHEN! I'm in love with this place. I love the fact that I can be unloading the dishwasher and Brandon can be reaching into the fridge at the same time. That, my friends, is total luxury to me. I also love that the kitchen window looks directly out to the backyard, so I can keep an eye on the boys once they are old enough to go outside without me.
The office. This is Brandon's domain and he's set it up the way he loves it. I'm just grateful that we were able to fit everything in this room that we wanted in it. It's also super awesome that this room has a walk-in closet that is still pretty empty. I guess that means we have room for more random stuff.
This is Luke's room. I love that the rocking chair fits in here with plenty of room to spare. It's also nice to have him in a room of his own. Both Luke and Peter like the fact that they don't have to share.
Our bedroom. Holy cow - I could live in this place 24/7. I love all the windows and I try to uncover them every single day. It makes me happy to see the sunshine. We also have a great view of the mountains out the window on the left. I'm thankful for our new bed frame. We got it the week before we moved in. It's especially nice that Peter can climb up onto it by himself.
This is half of our bathroom. Love the fact that I have my own sink. My side of the sink is always overflowing with contact and hair stuff and Brandon's is always dirty with whisker hair. (Did you know he grew a beard?)
The bathtub is my pride and joy. Unfortunately, I've only found enough uninterrupted time to bathe in it twice, but it is heavenly. A word of warning though - go easy on the bubble bath when using the jets in this tub. It can get really crazy.
This is totally out of order, but this is the other side of our room. Since we have a closet in the bathroom for our clothes this closet is used as a 'storage room'. Brandon's Japanese flag is proudly hanging there. I would really like to display it a couple of times during the year. If only I could find the time to sit down and research which days that would be most appropriate.
This is Peter's room. He inherited our chest of drawers. It's weird because his room feels so empty right now. I'm sure that will change as he gets older. Brandon told me last night that Peter is probably big enough for us to put a flat sheet and a normal size blanket on his bed. I think I might even give Peter a pillow on which to sleep. I'm thankful for the Loy family who gave us this bed for Peter. As it was, his box springs and mattress cost us $300. At that price they better last him the rest of his life.
Okay - so we have way too much stuff. We filled a 26 foot moving truck, plus Brandon's Dad's truck and trailer, plus four cars. I don't know how we accumulated that much stuff in just over five years of marriage.
More of the awesome crew helping to load up. My Dad is the one with the dolley. He was such a hard worker that he was all ready to haul out the fridge. Thank goodness someone stopped him before he did because the fridge stayed with the apartment. Brother Wimberly (with the sweaty shirt) was assigned to be our Home Teacher the week before we moved. He was so wonderful to come and help us, even though he really didn't have to.
The empty apartment with the moving-out crew. We fed everyone doughnuts and water, so this is some of the crew taking a little break.
Moving-in crew! I can't say enough awesome things about my family. In this picture is my cousin, BIL, Uncle, and cousin's wife. We seriously were overwhelmed with everyone that came to help.
When the moving truck arrived at the house the key to the new house hadn't arrived. So everyone unloaded the moving truck while they were waiting. I bet my neighbors were laughing in their houses because our entire front yard was full of stuff.
More of the moving crew. That's a cousin, cousin's wife, and another cousin. Seriously, my cousins are the best.
Unloading the moving truck. That thing was stuffed to its gills.
More of the moving crew plus the awesome view from our front yard. That is the same view (only a little bit better) that we have from our bedroom window.
The moving crew set up a system where they would pass the boxes from one to person to the other until the box was in the right room. What's cool is that the train started in the front yard, to the front door, thru the front room, and up the stairs. It was a remarkable sight to see.
Random picture of Luke. While we were moving out of the apartment he was getting watched by my Visiting Teacher - Claudia. She was so sweet and she gave Luke this little purple monkey as a moving away gift. He loves that thing.
Brandon's cousin and his wife Vashti. They left their three-month old baby with Vashti's parents so they could come and help. Totally love these two.
Cousin, cousin, cousin's wife, and a friend of a cousin. Seriously, I was amazed that one of my cousin's friend would want to come help. Thank you Sam for bringing him. He really was such a big help.
My sister Amy and her hubby Morgan. They were the first to arrive and the last to leave. What would I do without Amy. She seriously is a life saver for me.
Aunt Laurie, Brandon's Mom, and Luke. Luke loved all the attention he was getting from everyone (except his own mother).
Another view of Luke's room. This time I am standing behind the rocking chair.
The laundry room. One of these days we're going to get cupboards to put above the washer/dryer. But until that time, I have a spare bookcase that holds all my cleaning supplies. A child lock on the door keeps the boys out of this room.
Finally, here is a recent picture of Peter. He loves these glasses so much. They are the kind that you use to watch 3D movies at the theater. He calls them his sunglasses and he is inseparable from them. What a kid.
Having a house to come home to is even more wonderful than I imagined it to be. I wish everyone could be as happy in their first home as I am in mine. I'm thankful that Brandon and I took so long to find the perfect house. It makes me happy to know that we'll probably be here for the rest of our lives. I've even daydreamed about what this house will be like when the kids are teenagers. We have met many wonderful people in our new neighborhood. There are even several kids on our street that are the same age as Luke and Peter. How awesome is that. I'm thankful that Heavenly Father directed us to look at homes in Springville because I never would have looked there of my own accord.
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