Thursday, December 30, 2021

The Perfect Christmas Eve story

In a desert region one day, a number of travelers set out on a trip. It was hot and the journey was long. They had little in common except their shared desire to arrive at a distant city. Each carried provisions and water expecting to replenish their supplies along the way. 

Not long after leaving their homes, a great storm arose. Dust clouds darkened the sun, and the wind brought swirling sands which quickly filled the low places in the road. What at first had seemed a pleasant outing suddenly became a hazardous undertaking. The travelers soon realized that the question was not merely when they would arrive at the city, but whether they would arrive at all.

Confusion and doubt affected the company. Some sought shelter, while others attempted to turn back. A few moved onward through the storm. The end of the first day found them scattered, with inadequate provisions, wanting water, and lost in the desert. A new day brought hunger, thirst, and despair. The storm still raged. Hope was in short supply. Familiar landmarks were gone. The road, which had been narrow and hard to find, at best, was hidden by silt and debris. No one knew where to go to find it. Many claimed to know the way, but as they could not agree, each traveler wandered in his own way in search of water or the shelter of a settlement.

At the end of yet another day, two of the group, half-blinded by dust and with their strength nearly gone, came unexpectedly, with something more than good fortune, upon an inn and way station. There in the sanctuary of walls and roof, they refreshed themselves and counted their blessings. There they replenished their stores and contemplated the remaining portion of their journey. The weather remained unsettled. The wind continued to blow. The poorly marked road wound ahead through hills where the sand piled deep and where it was said that robbers sometimes preyed upon unsuspecting travelers.

One of the two was anxious to reach his destination. He had important business in the city. He gathered his supplies and water and paid his account. Early in the morning he set out in haste in an attempt to cross the hill country by nightfall. But the windblown sand had blocked the road. He was forced to dig and detour. When night came, he was far from the city, exhausted and alone. When he fell asleep, thieves found him, took his supplies, and left him without strength and without water to face almost certain death.

The second traveler was also desirous of reaching his destination. But he remembered the others in the desert behind him. They were lost and would soon perish without water and without hope. He alone knew where they were. He alone knew their condition and their need. He likewise arose early and paid his account. He glanced at the hills with their promise of the city beyond, and then turned back down the road whence he had come.

The sky was a little lighter now. He recognized some of the landmarks. He knew about where he had left his traveling companions. He called out to them by name, for he knew them. After hours of patient searching, he found many of them. He shared with them life-giving water from his own containers. He told them he knew the way. He spoke as if he had authority, so they followed him, and he brought them to the way station with him.

There they rested and regained their strength. They were given directions regarding how to reach the city. They renewed their provisions, filled their water containers, and went out again to face the storm.

The journey was still difficult. The wind still blew and clouds obscured the sun. The road still wound through the sometimes deep sand, and thieves were still in the hills. But this time the traveler was not alone. The group was large. When sand blocked the way, work parties were organized to remove it. When some faltered, the strong shouldered the burdens of the weak. When night came, there were watchmen to man the watch. After many days, the second man and his friends arrived safely at their destination.

When they arrived there, those who had been rescued and given water gathered around the second traveler and said, “We could not have come to this place without you. We shall ever be grateful to you for searching for us, for finding us, for sharing your water and your bread. We know that you put aside your own journey and submitted to the hardships of the desert in order to help us when we were lost. What can we do to repay you?”

And the second man replied, “Thank me not, for by no power of my own did I find the way station. The water there would have been bitter had I not shared it with you. I know that I could not have arrived at the city without you. Your strength and encouragement enabled me to continue on. Your presence prevented robbers from attacking. I have come to realize that in order to save my own life, I had to save yours as well. I know now that it is not so much the haste of one’s journey but rather what he does along the way which determines whether he will arrive at his destination. Thank me not,” he said. “In truth, I have not brought you to this place, we have brought one another.”

I love this story for so many reasons. It has made an inpact on me, and I hope it will touch you too. You can read the whole Conference talk here.

Tuesday, December 28, 2021

A big mess

For several years the faucets on our jetted tub have leaked and been loose. It recently got so bad that the faucets wouldn't work at all.

I thought I would be handy and replace them. Parts from Amazon took about a week to arrive. Then I searched for the water turn off value. No easy access anywhere. I made a bad decision and mistakenly thought that as long as the faucets were turned off surely I could just swap the parts out. Bad, bad idea. I ended up with a geyser and a flood all over my bathroom floor.

I managed to get the tightening bolt back on so the geyser stopped, but the water wouldn't stop running. So, at 11:30 at night I went and got the very long sprinkler turn off key. It worked to turn off ALL the water to the house. 

Finally after midnight I fell into bed completly exhausted. Bad dreams about water going everywhere had me back up at 4am. Grrrr!

After shoveling snow and contemplating what to do, I attempted to get it turned off. The stupid valve is in the worst spot. It's mashed between the furnance and water heater. I tried a hammer, broom handle, the sprinkler key, a wrench, and a pipe. I couldn't get anything to work. 


It really is shoved in the worst spot. Meanwhile, I got the tub faucet replaced. Then I texted my neighbor, Brandon, and then called my Dad. Ugh.
Dad had so many great suggestions which didn't work. My arm just needed to be skinnier. I really was so mad at it. I cryed over this water valve.

Then my neighbor came over (Neil) and popped his hand back there and had it back on in nanoseconds. I am SO greatful for him. I want so desperately to be handy, but I always flop so badly. He also came and fixed the faucets on the tub so they were tight. I was trying to use a dril bit because that's all I had. He brought over his hex set and got it done perfectly. I put a hex set on my wish list.

The sad thing is now I want to try and fix the cold water on my 2nd master bathroom sink. It was leaking so badly and I didn't feel capable of fixing it. So, we just turned off that valve and don't use that sink. Someday I will be handy. I will probably make a lot more blunders in the process though.

Tuesday, December 21, 2021

The Test

I have been studying to take the Producers Combined property and casualty insurance exam for a month.

Today was test day. I was able to take the test at home via an online protoring exam service. It was a nice alternative to a sterile and unfamilar testing center. My scheduled test started at 6am.

Yesterday, I spent 8.5 hours reviewing everything I have learned over the past month. Most of the test questions dealt with the application of insurance information. So, it was a hard test. I needed to pass with a 70%. I got a 78%. I've never been so greatful for such a low score.

Here are all the notes I created during my intense review session yesterday.
With a bit of luck, I hope to start working insurance the first week of January. I wonder how much of a learning curve there will be.

My kids are so glad I passed. I haven't been very fun to be around the past month.

Monday, December 13, 2021

In trouble - Chpt 13

Chpt 13 for the Insurance exam is causing me all sorts of grief. It deals with Dwelling Policies (used by owners of rental properties) and Homeowner Policies. It has been so complicated. I have to know types of coverages, limits of coverages, exclusions, conditions, percentage values of coverages, and endorsements to coverages if insureds feel that they need more. I've spent WAY too much time studying the lecture material. This chapter videos for this section are 3.5 hours long. My 1st attempt at the practice quiz got me a 52% and my 2nd attempt was 80%. Feeling super discouraged because this topic is the primary focus of my new job. Ugh.
This is my 1st attempt. It defiantly is Christmas colors.

This is my 2nd attempt.

I will somday look back and realize in the grand scheme of things this wasn't important. But, right now, I feel like my very existence was just terminated.

Wednesday, December 8, 2021

Christmas gifts

I help my neighbor with small projects. She works at the nearby elementary school as an aide for the kindergarten classes. The past two days I've been wrapping 32 books for one kindergarten teacher. I love how they turned out.

Our morning routine


6am - Wake up
  Data job

7am - kids up
7:15am - prayers and scriptures

My heart is so thankful for this new morning routine. Being able to read the scriptures together at the beginning of the day has worked so much better for us. 

I am also so thankful that I'm getting more sleep. It's been such an improvement. I didn't realize the impact my early morning job was having on my physical, emotional, and mental health.